Most women’s wedding is one glorious day — and then looked back on with joy. But what if you took your beloved day and turned it into something you can actually never want to think about? Here, is a brides story about being bullied after her wedding pictures started trending online and how she turned her dream day into a nightmare, ou might want to grab a tissue for yourself!
It is very clear in our modern society that there are extremely unrealistic beauty standards. Who are we to judge who is beautiful and who is not? What really matters is what lies on the inside of each and every one of us. Unfortunately, these unrealistic beauty standards cause many issues in life.
Women, especially, are held under awfully high expectations when it comes to beauty. Because of this, many women have been subject to severe bullying. Whether it be online, at school, or at work, it happens every single day. It is up to the subject to decide if they will let it affect them or not. However, this notion is easier said than done.
Bradleyuniversity.edu stated, “as social conditions and gender roles change, so do ideas about beauty. Consider some recent changes in the US. In the 1960s and 70s, beauty ideals for women shifted from the mature curvaceous body of stars such as Marilyn Monroe to the stick-thin, flat-chested figure epitomized by supermodels such as Twiggy or Kate Moss. The compelling fact here is that just as women started to make dramatic gains in the areas of education, employment and politics, the ideal female body began to look like a malnourished preadolescent girl, weak, emaciated and non-threatening. Women may have been gaining in freedom and power, but they were increasingly encouraged to discipline their bodies through diet and exercise to conform to ideals that were almost impossible to achieve.”
One woman who fell victim to today’s cruel society made headlines all over the world when her story got out. Years ago, a happy couple shared their wedding photos online, and it caused a giant uproar on social media. Their identities remain anonymous as they cherish their privacy, but their story has traveled far and touched the hearts of us all.
When this woman received nasty comments that shamed her appearance, she realized she needed to make a change. Once she did, she left the world shocked. Now, people cannot believe the transformation that she has made. Looking like a totally different person, she puts her bullies to shame.
In 2011, a very happy couple from Russia decided to tie the knot. It was an extremely heartfelt wedding as everyone could tell how intense their love was. At the time, everything just felt right. Unfortunately, it was not all happiness and smiles ahead.
This happy couple lived out a few months in the most glorious honeymoon phase. Every day, their love grew and they were ecstatic to be married. This bride’s husband was absolutely crazy about her and in that moment, everything was perfect. Little did they know the heartbreak and tears coming their way.
Wanting to share their glorious love with the world, the couple posted their wedding photos on Facebook, as most do. Family members and friends commented sharing their love and support for the couple. Eventually, the photos were shared and the comments that followed were not very nice at all.
These comments were actually a little far past “not being nice”. They were absolutely cruel and horrifying. Some commenters even went as far as to call her “the ugliest bride in the world”. These comments alone were nasty, but believe it or not, the cruelty did not stop there.
Many commenters claimed that this couple’s relationship was a scam and that it wouldn’t last. A lot of people tried to say that there was no way this man could actually be in love with his wife. Once this poor woman saw the cruel comments, she was devastated.
Soon thereafter, the couple made a concerted effort to ignore the hate they received. Even though this woman was put down by numerous people around the world, she found a way to get through it and forget about these cruel bullies. These bullies were certainly in shock when they saw what she looks like now.
For a while, this couple actually ended up walking around like celebrities. Although it was not for the right reasons, many people in their path recognized them through their viral wedding photos. As time passed, the hype died down and they went back to living the normal lives that they preferred.
Although the couple decided to brush the hate off and forget the trolls, this woman did realize that she wanted to change. She was not in denial about the way she looked. She knew she did not meet the world’s impossible beauty standards. But something came over her and she decided to change.
This woman was fed up with the glares and the gossip. However, she also wanted to finally be healthy. After coming up with a plan, this woman finally kicked it into action. The results went viral as she shocked the world.
This couple was known to keep to themselves more than others. Perhaps this was because of the glares they received. They resided in a suburb in Moscow and did their best to maintain their privacy. They were just a happy couple that did not really seek contact with anyone else. That is, until one reporter got a hold of them.
One reporter was looking for the latest story to share and he remembered the incident with this couple. Since they were so secluded, it was hard to find them. Eventually, he found the happy love birds. What he saw left him in absolute shock and he decided to share it with the world.
This beautiful bride was completely transformed. The reporter said that she was completely unrecognizable. Since she looked like a completely different person, he wondered if maybe this man got re-married. The wonderful truth was that this was the same woman and they were still madly in love.
The question had to be asked, “How did she do this?” She told the reporter that it did take her close to six years to get where she was. She went on to explain that most of the weight loss was a result of the extreme fitness lifestyle she had attained.
The woman then went on to explain that she had also had some work done. This included liposuction which is very common for people that lose an extreme amount of weight. Unfortunately, some people cannot choose exactly where they lose it. Her extreme transformation included many other procedures as well.
This woman also admitted that she had a lot of body enhancements, several facial enhancements and fixed her balding problem. Although she was a different person on the outside, she remained the happy, humble woman on the inside. She then revealed another big part of her transformation.
As most people could guess, she also made extreme changes to her diet. She claims that this was a big part of it. Now healthy on the inside and out, the best part of it all was the reason she made the change.
Usually when people transform in extreme ways, people assume that they must have been insecure. This woman stated that this was not the reason at all. Yes, she wanted to feel better about herself, but the reason was much deeper than that, and it touched the hearts of people all around the world.
This woman claimed that the reason she made this huge transformation was to give her amazing husband the woman that he always saw inside of her. She wanted to see what he saw and give him the arm candy that he deserves. He already loved her so much, she just wanted him to have it all.
The happy couple said that absolutely nothing has changed in their relationship since the transformation. He has told her how much he loves her since the day they met, and continues to remind her every day. This couple gave the world a perfect example of honest, true love and their story touched the hearts of many.